Christa, thanks for the post. I had known that she has been hanging with lesbians and at the gay bar. Actually, one of her friends works at my office and I had somewhat of a role of introducing them prior to the start pa all this. I know snooping is a no no but my curiousity got the best of me. What I found where several books that about the lifestyle, sex, dating, and awakening.
I know I don't want to confront her because I don't want to erode her trust and I don't know if she is learning, experimenting, or in a R with OW. But with what I know now, it does bring a little clarity to her statements when we talk about the R...I can't love you the way you need to be loved etc... I guess my fear at this point is that the issues in the m that caused the bomb may have released other issues post bomb, from her childhood etc.
I still plan to continue doing what I am doing but is there ever a point while in LRT/DBing to ask if there is an OP?
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