I agree. Too much of the focus is on what he wants, what she expects, what they will end up doing. Place the focus back on yourself. Do what you want to do as if this were an opportunity to be free. If your Northern Star is to be with your H in a loving marriage then visualize that as a long path not just winning one or two competitions. I am sure you are not being competitive. You are fighting for your marriage as we all should be doing but alas sometimes it takes just one person to save a marriage. Do not obsess over them or over what H wants. You are doing a great job GALing but why GAL with H? Just wondering? Is it recommended because I forget.
Think about the sex from both POVs.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
