darboyd5 - Disney Mom guess what - when I came home from work yesterday, W had let them all pickout and she bought them all a new toy - Boy its X-Mas everyday with mom.

Sara, I just want this nightmare to be over, figure, by end of summer D final. Second I need to get into a schedule with the kids getting up for school and what we do when we get home, dinner, homework, baths, etc. I also need to get my finances in order, I'll be at a point where, I'm no longer subsidizing W (she gets a direct deposit from my paycheck twice a month), I'll also have her off my medical and auto insurance, and I will cancel our cable subscription, that W had to have. Then I can figure out my budget and start a savings plan again.

Cat, my D9 was also excited about being given the opportunity to do extra work around the house, so she could earn additional money. trying to teach little ones also, they help pick-up and they get a dollar to spend at garage sales we started going to every Saturday morning, S5 seems to be the best at bargaining, he seems to come home with more and better items

I know its all for the best, just want to get to a point where I have some stability in my life, Where I don't have to rely on W for anything, Where stuff stops disappearing from the house, where I can say ok kids/house/finances are all taken care of, now I can work on me (GAL, etc)

M45
W41
M10 3/4 years
D9, D6, D6, S5
OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me
WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08
Date I'll forgive W for A = never