Cinders, I too needed to learn that or still need to...I detach and ignore...I think I should detach and try NOT to take things personally but I still do take them personally...I need to STOP but it is hard...I wonder if I have pushed my H towards D because of this...who knows....


Patti, great news!!!!! I am praying for you and your H to really get back together...


Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller