You do what you wanna do, I leave it all up to you

[Sugar and Spice]

I am totally ok with the paperwork at this point. I am almost more comfortable with just filing for D instead of only LS...don't ask me why.

There are some items that H has promised me that I would like to have put into the "good faith" agreement and I wonder if I can. He has promised to pay for my school and said that we could borrow the $$ from his 401K, I want it in writing. He has also said that I would get his 401K, I want it in writing. There is no benefit to waiting much longer to file this, simply because if she gets mad and starts a case with the DA now, we won't be able to remove his name from the house or anything else that will protect me and the kids and that will not be good. I should have listened a long time ago, but I didn't want to hear it. Stupid. I need to treat this like business and get it done.