phil, as long as you keep your focus on your wife, you will continue to flounder. drop the rope. let her go. worry about you and the kids.you are not letting her mind stew, and deal with all that she is going through. she cannot heal, leave her alone. believe me you can be in the same room and still leave her alone.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023