Yes I think we all want answers and its just something you have to let happen just like everything. We brew up these ideas of what we think we should do and what is the right way, but we usually get defeated. You cant have expectations about her though cause she will dissapoint you over and over.
I dont think D has been filed, but maybe that would be an eye opener for your W that you are moving on if you went and filed. Just keep praying and praying especially on them down moments. I know as mine progress, the less time I spend being down. At first it seem it would last for days. Now its just for a few minutes or maybe an hour or two.
my stories
M-31 W-28 S7 D2.5 T 8, M 4 W filed 2-14-08 D on hold 3/08 D off hold 5/08 D to be final on/by Nov 08 Anniv 9-4 looked hopeful