You do what you wanna do, I leave it all up to you

[MichelleLT]

Isn't that what all the WASs do though? They keep waiting in limbo, hoping the situation will miraculously solve itself and that they will miraculously be happy and life can go skipping along.

Doesn't happen.

But they have to figure that out for themselves.

If he won't sit down with DD, you need to tell him you will and then do it. Maybe he's equivocating because he's not certain the Troll-let is his, but even so, DD needs to know what's going on because it is effecting her.

(((((((S^2)))))))

If you are comfortable doing the paperwork and the reaction it will get, then you should do it. If not, wait a little longer.

It's whatever you need to do.