Cinders, I too needed to learn that or still need to...I detach and ignore...I think I should detach and try NOT to take things personally but I still do take them personally...I need to STOP but it is hard...I wonder if I have pushed my H towards D because of this...who knows....
Patti, great news!!!!! I am praying for you and your H to really get back together...
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
I'm very glad to hear that the end is near for her presence in your life.
I sense that my infrequent postings to you have offended over recent weeks/months and I apologize if they have seemed too much. It has really bothered me how much you have been taken for granted and how insensitive your husband has seemed to be to the pain you were still feeling because of his OW and his lack of intimacy.
Hopefully her leaving will open the door to healing in these areas and the two of you can begin to truly piece your marriage relationship back together.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
I would have made it big but that button doesn't work on my computer.
BTW purple is my favorite color so that makes the word better.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
Bill, not offended...really...just food for serious thought. Sometimes too serious, got me down but none the less true. but never offended. your insights are always welcome.
thanls TL and ANM...i hope it is the beginning of normalcy in our M in all depts!!!!!
Hes loaning her his truck...the downside...as he asked me the other night if I wanted the good news or the bad news first. ugh....but she will b gone...to where she came from. the town that has low income mill workers on the other side of the resort they met at when H worked there. A town niether of us has any reason to go to.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Great news.