Mulesqb - Can the sun shine on a donkey's a$$?

[mulesqb]

I know Bill - but I can't stomach the thought. The two of us have always taken great pride in the fact that we are the only ones we've ever been with. That will be a life altering occurrence for me - would never be able to look at her the same. She's already so different from the person i know - I don't think I would ever be able to...well let's not go there for now.

I did ask her parents to be patient and stop trying to fix her. They agreed but they are very frustrated and sad. I had that exact conversation about alienating her and destroying everything if they went through with this. I think they get it. For them this has gone on for a couple of years. My W shut them out 2 years ago, really for no reason. When i tried to talk to her about it, she got mad and we never resolved it.

I'm praying for a good counseling session for her today - I just have a good feeling about it - I mean why not?? At some point this dark cloud has to finish spilling it's rain, right??