You do what you wanna do, I leave it all up to you

[Sugar and Spice]

So wouldn't it make the most sense to get all of the paperwork done and then just ask him to leave me alone?

At what point do I tell my dad? I haven't yet because I really don't want to hear what he is going to say. I also mentioned something to H about telling DD and he thinks she is too young to know, but I think its just as wrong to wait until the kids is here to say, "Oh, by the way honey, you know have a new brother/sister." I'm just so damn tired of all of this and I'm tired of feeling like I'm being played. I think all of this baby crap is a cop out and he is just waiting until its born because then he thinks the decision will be easier to make.