I agree with everything above. The thing I noticed you saying, and maybe it was a "slip of the tongue", is that the kids will be happy that the neighbors (not just the wife) will be gone. You also said, "they" talked her into going. I really don't like that. Actually, I don't like any of it, but I don't really think there is much you can do. I see several bad scenarios (I shouldn't even put the ideas in your head because what could you do about it anyway): All three will go and they are interested in a threesome, your wife is talking about "experimentation" and maybe next door neighbor wife is also (like cheating togeher or trying out the lesbian thing). I just can't really put anything past them.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
