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Jeff LOL! I stole your idea a bit and left an I love you note on the mirror in the bathroom. H said it was nice!

While he was in the shower I put I love you notes (multiple) in his car. I've decided that I am only going to show him positive changes and love. No expectations, with my heart laid bare, just love.

H seems touched, but confused, that I am not asking for anything in return. My strength is growing and with it my ability to look past what he is saying. I can still see love in his eyes. He still says ILY, but usually in response to my ILY first.

I go camping this Friday. I may leave a message on the mirror when I go.


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S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012!
Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.

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You should do it so it shows up in the steam on the glass when they have a shower. Then it'll be a surprise when they get out!


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Jeff,

FYI I am looking into the Westin La Paloma in Tucson, and also the Wigwam outside Phoenix. Both have golf packages right now. I don't know if three days is enough if I want to golf, have a spa day, and just relax by the pool too...... ;\)

Of course I'd love to meet you if I come to Tucson. I am not booking anything yet, want to make sure how much $$ I get from us selling the house first...

Thinking of you!


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JCJ, I like the idea of the marker that he will see when he comes home from work Friday night. NOW I just have to figure out what the message should be. I thought about Besitos. (See previous posts - means little kisses in Spanish.) He will wonder all weekend what it means.


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Besitos is one of the first Spanish words I ever learned...I love that one!!! It is a fabulous idea!


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Jeff, how are you this morning?? \:\)


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Leaving for work! I'll write later!

HUGS!

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Good Morning Jeff!!!


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Lola...the first 2 words I ever learned were hola y coņo. Hola for meeting people and coņo for flipping them off LOL


Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*

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Jeff, have a great day at work (ie hope you don't have anything to do today \:\) )


Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*

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