Thanks, it comes from more practice than I am happy to admit...at least its coming to good use.
Buster you should do fine, just out-mature this sob...you have made some childish mistakes in the past, and this is your penance, bear your cross with the dignity of a real human being and you will get to the other side of this.
And yes, you said she did the drugs too, well guess what? When you get accused of a crime and you point fingers at others and defend yourself with "Hey she did them too"...just makes you look like a child. Adults own thier mistakes as part of the history they create for themselves, children point fingers and avoid the history they make for themselves.
We all write a story for our lives, you can't escape that. Men accept this, children run from it...this is your moment in the sun...step up to the bat and swing away.