haunted by memory of Ow

[LuvMyHusband]

My H and reconciled after a 6 month seperation during which he had a EA with one woman and then a month PA/EA with another one. We have been doing well (alot of changes) until I found out that he had saved the OW from the PA, contact information and recently a picture. This hurt me tremendously. When I found out about it, I waited a day or two to talk to him and when I did, his attitude was "it's not a big deal". It is when I had asked him specifically when he returned if he had any of this, he said NO. I never wanted to know what SHE looked like, now it's in my head. I feel so hurt because I feel as if he still has feelings for her. He denies this, said she was a "friend when he needed one" and he gets defensive if I criticize her. He says he loves me, that he is ILWM and only me. I am having a hard time believing him now and I feel distant. He has hurt the budding trust I had him too. I could use some advice. Thank you.