Another tip...it costs FAR less to have all your locks re-keyed vs. completely changed out. His key will still not work. I would make an appointment to have the guy THERE, re-keying the locks as he's getting his stuff out. Maybe then he'll get the hint. If he doesn't like it, tell him..my house, not your problem! Tell him clearly- whatever isn't moved today, is not getting moved. No negotiation. And if he brings the OW...if it takes everything you have- do NOT let her on your property. I think I'd even call the cops for trespassing. He has disrespected you enough, that is YOUR home.
You are doing so, so well. Your strength is amazing, whether you realize it or not. He will continue to be faced with what will be the biggest mistake of his life. The best revenge is to live well. I'd sure be ALLLLL smiles on moving day, that's for sure!
