OK, I see what you're saying here. That IS a tough, tough one.
My suggestion would be to give her GLIMPSES of that ability, but no more. Say, once a week you sit and have a really nice, long, validating, listening conversation with her, just to flex that relationship muscle and show it off to her.
We will see. We are going to discuss financial stuff on Thursday. Who knows where that will go.
The ideal would be that she has a small dose of reality (which can only be helped by her parents disc, finacial review, etc) and she wants to then see if there is anything to salvage in our M. I think we would need help to ultimately overcome where we are. Let's just hope it is not too late for me...
Interesting horoscope today (Scorpio): Today one of your relationships will reach a crossroads -- although you might not have an awareness of it until you have already gone one way while they've gone the other. Don't let this growing sense of emotional distance make you lose hope, though. Sometimes people have to go off in their own direction to find what they need. This could be a temporary separation, you know. Roads that diverge can come back around again. Your relationship is not going to end.
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No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
