I wondered where you were but I always feel that no news is good news!
You know, I think we have a tendancy to build these relationships up in our mind, as if they are happy beyond belief. I did that myself, but I can tell you that's very rarely the case. They may start out seemingly perfect in both our minds and the ex's, but the truth is that at some point real life comes into play. Someone has to take out the garbage, and clean the toilets and even clean up the dog poo. The bigger piece is that chemically no relationship has a euphoria window that can chemically last much more than 6 to 12 months. Then the work that every relationship requires to stay fresh comes into play. Seeing they both have already proven to be quitters, this may not be so easy for them.
My point is that you are spending time feeling badly about what HE has and you don't when the truth is it may not be anything like you're thinking. Besides, he's a tool!
