hope you have a good list of what you want and take what you really want to keep, what a freeloader indeed! how can he even ask you to get stuff for him? hope you are not buying anything when he's askign you to. Heck no, dont' pay for anything else unless your name is on it and you have to (credit cards) let him spew, once you pay for one thing he'll go for more and more... cut it at the root, he needs to stop trying to take advantage of you. If he is keeping the house it's his problem, I kept the house, and even before the legal sep. paperwork when there was a leak I paid for it since I was going to be the owner (well, also stbx didnt' live there anymore). About the refinancing, do it when it is most convenient for you, he doesnt' want to be your H anymore, so there is no reason to accomodate him, bad enough you are waiting 7mhts, tell him that's the deadline and if he doesnt' get his act together too bad (seems that only a kick in the butt will get him moving)
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
