Okay, I'll say it.....there are some positives, but I'm skeptical. In my opinion, her comment is solely about herself, not you. She wants to feel like this is a crushing blow to you.If you went around saying ILY all the time she'd reject you. I'm sure her self-esteem is in the gutter and now she thinks, "he hasn't even said he loves me. Maybe I wasn't that important to him." She needs that validation for herself.

Lest you forget...this is the woman that is making the divorce process as ugly as possible (spitefully), making it difficult to see your daughter, acting like your daughter is her possession and maybe she'll let you see her at HER convenience, and accused you unjustly of rape and potential violence towards her. You are the guy that tried to change all his negatives to positives and be the best husband and father he could be. So why is it that you still feel like you should be chasing her? If she's started to chase, let her continue.

That being said, I don't think it's wrong to say something along the lines of, "Yes, I do still love you, but this whole process has me questioning whether you'd ever be right for me. I've worked hard to change the person I was and I feel I deserve to have 'happily ever after' with someone that can see the positives in me."

You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer