In my sitch I was convinced my W had an EA for quite a while before we sep. I found as I paid it no attention while we were sep that it is gone away...and since things are almost back to normal for us, it is completely gone. I think in a lot of respects I was keeping it alive but paying it attention....in some respects validating its existence. BY not caring about it, it went away. I am not saying it is the same in your sitch, but in either case making an issue about it or even being concerned about it is not going to help your sitch.
It is amazing how this works. A wierd side story: My D had a low grade fever (99-101) every single day, through the day for over a year. I took her to see numerous specialists and they all through their hands up in the air. One day after not getting any resolution, we just stopped checking her temperature...a few weeks later I checked it and she was normal and has been normal ever since. Weird....ehh
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
