One last chance!

[Rob1231]

I don't know how they feel, but I'm not about to be second (or third) to any Man in my Woman's eye.

Hi Tom,

Just caught up on your sitch - whew, the fun never ends, does it?

I think your last line sums it up perfectly. If she wants to get you back, then she needs to put her money where her mouth is. She needs to decide that you come first, she needs to pursue you, she needs to make you feel special and cherished and that you are Her One And Only.

If she can say that's what she's shooting for (even if it takes a while to get there), then the rest of the list is unnecessary.

If that's not what she has in mind, then I would tell her "Thanks but no thanks!"

Either way, we're routing for you!