I just caught up with your post about the other night. I thought it was a pretty good exchange thought I probably wouldn't have said "I'm not ready to date you, and you probably aren't as well". Sounds very negative. Going the other way would have been presumptious. I think you got the desired effect when you left it silent and you got a smile....that is a good sign.
I can't say much abouty her intentions with regards to seeing others. She might have thrown the mystery out there to see how you are going to react. She might have been "testing" you to see how you would react. The rest of the conversation seems like probing on her part to see if you were dating. She might be waiting to see if you start dating to start herself.
Did your W mention that things were breaking around the house....did you fix any of them?
Also, I think it is great that your W is noticing the changes....I told you she would be watching you. Good job on making that change
Last edited by TwinDad; 07/08/0812:22 PM.
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
