Starshyne how does moving back in say more than words to her ? she will be pi$$ed
Buster,
First off, you've got to stop -- FOREVER -- using the degree to which your wife will be "pissed" as your motivation in your decision-making. Replace it with things like "what is the RIGHT thing to do in this situation?", "what would GOD have me do in this situation?" and "will this bring me closer to, or further from, my stated goals?"
Once you stop operating from a position of "How will my wife react to this, and how will it make ME feel when she reacts that way?", and start doing instead what is RIGHT, I will promise you, is one of the most liberating things you will ever experience.
Now, to answer your question: moving back in says to her:
- I am a man of integrity - You do not intimidate me - I love you, and am willing to fight for you - I will not be moved; I am strong - You can have this strength you see working FOR you, if you choose to have a relationship with me, instead of FIGHTING it.
It says a lot of things. What it DOESN'T say is "I am a quitter, and am weak, and run when things get tough." A woman, especially, will lose respect for a spouse that projects this.
