Phil - I'm not an Amy "groupie" but can tell you that she definitely helped me to get out of my own way.
Unfortunately you don't see the need to do that yourself and until you do, you'll keep tripping over your arrogance.
Good luck trying to "win" her back. The person you portray yourself to be here - it's no wonder she's done. Holier than thou, smarter than everyone and doesn't handle criticism well, but expects her to put up or shut up.
Sounds like a dream marriage to me
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...