I think the server can't cope if the thread gets too long or something. Here is my new thread. I too am dying to know how the anniversary went with TwinDad - I am hoping no news is good news?! That is a shame about your dog, it sounds like you need him too at the moment. I have to say that my cat has become devoted to me since my h left and is a real comfort to me. She doesn't leave my side. It's funny because my h is in love with that cat and when he comes round she won't go near him!