Neil - My W has been encouraging me to meet someone else and always said she wouldn't and wasn't looking to. Well, what happens ? I stick to my beliefs and my marriage vows and she goes off cheating at the earliest opportunity.
Not saying that is what you W will do, but that is my experience. What I will say is, as others are now saying on my thread, they told me she would have a PA if she wasn't already way back and I just didn't think she would do that to me. So, I've no idea what it means, but that is my experience.
Apologies if that comes accross real negative, I probably shouldn't post to others right now
