Given how your H has reverted, knowing full well how much this must hurt you and yet is doing so anyway, I think the path you've chosen -- to go dark and leave the decision to his actions -- makes sense. It would be different if he had never escaped the "fog" the first time, but now that he is slipping back into it...
(((((Sara))))) Thank you for that. Your words touched me, and I am sure others too -- they are a reminder to all of us that today is precious. Enjoy the moment while you can for it will be tomorrow before you are ready. It is a hard lesson I have had to discover very painfully in the last year.
