Should I tell her I know?

[bluerain]

I tried calling the OW. Theyre immature and you cant make someone with such poor character feel bad, they dont have shame or guilt, and it wont do anything but frustrate you more. The last thing that I will say about moving back in is that if you do, DO NOT move back out, it will only confirm what she may preceive as your poor character. Put the burden on her, maybe you should try to find another job, or change your shift, I know its not as easy as it sounds, but really, whats more important your job or your marriage? I dont think that she will move out, she might, but she might not. Wait for others input on this, but I have heard other M professionals recommend it for the same above mentioned reasons.