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Re: Wandering Poster - Twenty Six LolaL #1509025 07/08/08 05:08 AM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA M MichelleLT Member
MichelleLT Member M Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA	I say take tonight off, then do the rainbow tomorrow! I remember when you decided to stop going down the cheeseless tunnel of telling her goodnight. The question is, since not seeking her out hasn't caused her to seek you out, what else can you do that might be more appreciated by her? ((((((Jeff))))))) Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2

Re: Wandering Poster - Twenty Six LolaL #1509026 07/08/08 05:08 AM
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OP Virtually_Handsome Member V Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ	Originally Posted By: LolaL Does your W even speak to you? Hmmmm..... Well, she asked me tonight if I had cat litter! She said my bedroom stank. (The catbox is in the master bath.) This weekend we talked about her getting called off work Saturday. And she complained about S18's lack of work. Does she really speak to me, I don't think so. Some days I really don't think we say twenty words to each other. Maybe I should get a clicker and count them!

Re: Wandering Poster - Twenty Six MichelleLT #1509029 07/08/08 05:09 AM
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OP Virtually_Handsome Member V Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ	Originally Posted By: MichelleLT I say take tonight off, then do the rainbow tomorrow! I remember when you decided to stop going down the cheeseless tunnel of telling her goodnight. The question is, since not seeking her out hasn't caused her to seek you out, what else can you do that might be more appreciated by her? ((((((Jeff))))))) I dunno.... Move out?

Re: Wandering Poster - Twenty Six Virtually_Handsome #1509031 07/08/08 05:10 AM
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MichelleLT Member M Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA	Hah. I know a place in California you could stay..... $;\)$ Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2

Re: Wandering Poster - Twenty Six MichelleLT #1509036 07/08/08 05:12 AM
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OP Virtually_Handsome Member V Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ	I'm going to need somewhere, around the rafting trip! It's a long commute to work, though!

Re: Wandering Poster - Twenty Six MichelleLT #1509037 07/08/08 05:12 AM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL Member
LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	Do you want to move out? Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: Wandering Poster - Twenty Six LolaL #1509039 07/08/08 05:13 AM
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MichelleLT Member M Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA	Hmm yes. That commute would be evil. Lol. Lola at least could look for a new job here! Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2

Re: Wandering Poster - Twenty Six MichelleLT #1509040 07/08/08 05:14 AM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL Member
LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	I would probably have more luck!!! Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: Wandering Poster - Twenty Six LolaL #1509041 07/08/08 05:15 AM
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OP Virtually_Handsome Member V Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ	Originally Posted By: LolaL Do you want to move out? Some days? Some days, it would feel great to walk around without the eggshells. To not worry about saying the wrong thing (which can be just about anything, these days). To not get the disapproving looks. Those days are more frequent these days, but they are not the majority. Though, I have to say, it's WAY more about the kids, and the financials, for that matter, than it is about her, or the M. Maybe someday she can come out of whatever she's in. But, it hasn't changed in so long, I'm really not optimistic.

Re: Wandering Poster - Twenty Six Virtually_Handsome #1509042 07/08/08 05:17 AM
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OP Virtually_Handsome Member V Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ	I might be able to find a job there! I am educated, more or less! "They" say there aren't enough engineers. Of course they mean that there aren't enough engineers willing to work for peanuts!

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