from her point of view, she is supposed to be with her ex (OM). there's no changing her mind no matter how much I back off, or how much I let her go, or how much I try to fight to make this work. I still wear my ring for a reason.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
My suggestion was, you move back into YOUR home, as YOU did nothing wrong. If she chooses to leave, that's her choice -- you are not "kicking her out."
I personally doubt she'll leave.
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I asked her tonight. she said its not because there's someone else involved.
if i move in and say "i'm done inconveniencing myself and not seeing my son" she'll just move with our son into her parents. so either way, i see him everyday. I can't keep him overnight because I work 3rd shift.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
Taking back your house is tough....been there and am still doing that. But it does speak a lot more to your spouse than words do.
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
Buster, Moving back in will SHOW her that you are not about to abandon your wife or your child. Personally I think that it will be brutal, you will probably see her behave in a way that you never imagined she could be, but I encourage you to do it. It will also show the OM that you arent giving up on her. If you really want your M then its always worth it. Hopefully she wont take your baby, but at least you will have made a concrete effort, and I think that it will be a display of your commitment to her and your personal integrity.
Good luck, this is so hard.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
this makes me very nervous.........we are finally getting along for the first time in a month......if i say i'm moving back in, it's going to get nasty. right now she wants to mediate, but i assume if i move in, she will not want to talk this divorce out, she will sic a lawyer on me.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
