Listen to BND, she is 1000% right about this.

I, too, did similar things and yep, they sure did backfire.

Thank God, that is behind us now and that my husband is a forgiving person. Whew!!!!!!!!!!

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19