Again I agree with what you have said. It's just that I didn't see it clearly when I should have. I just don't think right now it's worth my effort. I know him too well. If there is a chance or him working through this, he has to initiate it and then I have to lay down the boundaries. If he doesn't initiate it then I will just go on about my life without contacting him. I'm not trying to be hard headed, I'm just saying that I do not plan on any contact with him. It has to be his idea to reconcile for me to state these boundaries, otherwise I know it will be time to move on without him. I can't force him to come back, he has to have the want to. Right now, he is not showing that. So I will remain dark and give myself time to decide whether it is time to dissolve my marriage.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
