please do not call yourself a failure. the DR said if you make a mistake or backslide- fix it fast. thats all. do not beat yourself up. R talks happen and when they do you can SHOW him your new way of being. i agree that being in the same house is hard and ML can add confusion to the stages... im so sorry right now- you will be ok:) tomorrow is a new day!
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