I'm so sorry! That is so horrible that this happened to you especially after the emotion with your D last night.
IMO, you need to put emotional distance between you and H. Obviously having him in the house and talking personally with him is making thing more confused for both of you.
Let me ask a question, who initiates the ML?
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!