i didn't know you were gauging the situation by my answer. I'm not sure what exactly you want me to say so here goes.....it's my house too, i WANT to live there. I do NOT want to kick my wife and son out and have her move in with her mom and dad, sister and brother. I moved out because she needed space. obviously then she snuck a guy over in our bed. I want things to be amicable between us; I'd rather go through a mediator than ugly lawyer/divorce proceedings. If i move in, she will surely move out. however i've already said neither of us can afford the house if one of us took their name off of the mortgage. what is your suggestion ? i wanted my son to live their because its his house and there's a kitchen for her to cook for him. I do not want to kick my son out of there. I work 3rd shift so I can't be there at night. he's 2 years old. what is your suggestion? both of us living there with him is not an option. I asked her tonight. she said its not because there's someone else involved.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
