Same experiences with my W. If you volunteered to take them to the airport, you would have been wrong, and if you didn't volunteer, you would be...... (hands on buzzers).....WRONG! It really is wack a mole.
Just thinkin' out loud here FLTC but actually it is quite freeing to know that everything you do will be wrong! You don't have to worry about doing the right thing because it will ALWAYS be the wrong thing. Look at all the energy we save for other more worthwhile things...like therapy! Hey Tom, isn't it the big Mahogany Rush concert in Cleveland this weekend? Are you gonna sneak Muriel in, what if they frisk ya? "Hey, check out what this guy has in his pocket. Were you gonna snort this"? Leave her at home... in the ashtray. But most importantly, don't make her the designated driver. Just my 2 cents.
