toruble on the the lake erie shore...#4!

[jandn]

Something about the LLs. Usually whatever the other person does for the other is thier LL. Although you might think your W's LL is what you think, is that what she is trying to do for you and vice/versa?

If its gifts, then the more you pay isnt always better. It just has to be something like "i saw this and it reminded me of you" (a magazine, something with her favorite person or character, a picture, etc). Gotta make her number 1.

Words of affirmination--compliment, compliment, compliment, but dont go overboard. She does her hair different, tell her you really like it or how whatever it is, be creative. You like her dress or new shoes or whatever, tell her with a smile.

Physical touch--I dont know where you stand with your W at this time. But this has to do with like holding hands, massages, back rubs, etc, NOT NECESSARILY SEX like us men would want it to be, but if it goes there, cool!

Good job on the date! There are books out there for dating your wife or 10000 great date ideas if you are weak in dating like most of M folks have been in our Ms.