At this time I'm not sure what I want to do, so I'm choosing to go dark for my sanity. I planning on detaching for my well-being. At this time I do not plan on sending him a letter or have any contact with him.
I do know that the last time that I went dark on him I issued some ultimatums and he said he would follow them, but I wasn't firm enough. If he comes back I will stick to my guns this time, if he doesn't come back then I know it's time to move on with my life. I'm not sure how long this timeframe will be, but probably not long...
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon