We went on our family trip in February (Disney, every year) and it was at that point that I completely let go, stopped fighting, stopped hoping things would turn around. Don't get me wrong, we had an amazing vacation, we talked a lot of things out while on vacation and I became VERY at peace during that week. That was also the time that I told H he would not be coming back to our house upon returning.
I stopped playing tug of war with H, stopped pulling him towards me, when he was so obviously pulling away from me. Make sense?
