I am going to check out a local church just down the street from me. And while I am at it I will search for some of those support groups you mentioned.
As for going to the bars alone it wasn't as bad as I thought it would be. I am usually a pretty reserved person but this is slowly changing, which is one of my goals. I started talking to random people as we were all watching the UFC fights. Was pretty interesting to hear their outlook on certain things.
And yes I am aware that tanning can cause skin cancer but it is only for a month to get my tan kick started. Once it is going then I will just sit by the pool and do it naturally. I was always a little embarrased of my body and shy as well, but now that I have lost weight and I think you can start to see a 2 pack in my gut which is a 1/3 of the way to the six pack again. I am just going to keep plugging away at this stuff to get me in the rightt!!
As for the whole sitch I have not heard from the W since saturday and oddly enough no one else has either. It is a shame that she cant take 10 minutes out of her busy schedule to call the kids, how disgusting!!
I talked to the in-laws today so I could speak with my son. And the FIL was asking questions about us. He said not to worry about him being the father because he thinks of me as his son! So I told him all the gory details and he became furious at how she could do this to our family. I also told him in no way do I think badly of her and that I still love her even though this is happening. He assured me he is going to stay out of this and will not say a word.
But I am done for a bit I just need to get some stuff done.
