Mark is brilliant!! I can testify this is the truth. When I was a ranting lunatic about OW (pressing for details, calling her bad names), H admitted he secretly loved it. Don't forget Mark, it also made me look immature and lacking any self respect! No more mention of OW or anything romantic at all with H.
I also second Not Just Friends.
Careful, now you are stroking my ego instead lol
Anyways...its just all kinds of wrong to namecall the OP...the best way to help yourself AND your relationship with HIM is to act as if you don't care in the slightest.
The next time he starts acting childish look at him as a CHILD and YOU as a PARENT.
Parents aren't going to resort to yelling and name calling when their children rant and throw tantrums and name call. A parent, a good one anyways, will just stand back casually and wait out the storm with indifference, arms calmly folded. When its over just say "Are you done? Because I have things to do today."
You could add "and you are just wasting my time" etc on the end of that but then you are backsliding. NO INSULTS, even subtle ones.
Indifference is your ally. Think like the Bhudda and find patience, peace, and serenity and you will find the other side of this thing.
