Well I finally got a thread locked...pretty stoked about that!!
Well anyways a little update on me, myself, and I. Called the FIL to talk to my son. He started to ask me all sorts of questions about me and the W. I felt like I should tell him what is going on. He said don't worry about anything, that he considers me as his own son! So I started to tell him all the crappy stuff that has been happening and how I think she is with another man. He replied that he thinks she is having an MLC and got totally pissed because he said it was unfair to our family! I tried to end the conversation at that, but told him in no way do I think badly of my W, even tho all this crap is going on I still love my W. Maybe I am stupid for having these feelings still but it is hard to throw away 13 years!
So I got to talk to my kids and hear how great Nebraska is..lol! My son got ticked off at me because I did not know what army vehicle he was talking about so he said I am done talking to youbecause you don't know, my son is a fireball and makes me laugh which I needed. He then got back on and told me he loved me and misses me, that makes a person feel all warm and fuzzy inside! Talked to my D and she is bored as all get up. Hard to keep a teenager happy when she has to leave her social life behind to go to dreaded Nebraska! Oh well she will cope, she still has her myspace to live on.
As far as the W goes I have had no contact and suprisingly no one else has either since saturday...kind of makes me worried. The landlady called me today because she went to the house to pick up rent which of course my W did not put in the mailbox, priorities you know, and she was wondering where my W was. I told her she was in Cali and she was furious that she did not put the check in there. I love the landlady as she has been awesome to us. She asked me if I can go to the house to write a check for her. I am thinking I should let it go so my W can face the consequences of being stupid!!
Anyways that is all for now will post later if anything changes.
Stay strong!
btw how do you get the links to show up as words instead of this long gaggle of a mess?
