5 yr DBer, "Joint" D now in progress

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Thanks Kimmie. Don't feel so strong today, though. Now that the D is officially underway, H's attitude is getting worse. Today, he angrily demanded that I pay to replace the tv remote control because the dogs chewed on it and it's not working anymore. The dogs grabbed it when my back was turned but H said I was supposed to be watching them (while he was out in the garage) so it's all my fault. My first instinct is that this is unfair, but I don't know whether it's worth a fight. H keeps bringing up other items like this he wants me to pay for too (garbage disposal, phone jack, dog's health care) Every day he's got something new. He's the one keeping the dogs and the house and the TV. Is this ridiculous or par for the course? Help.