He's never had his hormones checked.....what specialist does this? Endocrinologist? He has had his sperm checked when it took us 2 years to get pregnant (probably due to the fact that we didn't have sex enough, though). There were some issues there, but I did end up getting pregnant with me on Clomid (fertility drug). We have thought about a sex therapist...but all we keep picturing is the kinds of things that will be talked about and we already have issues about our love not being real....!!!!!! He is not sexually experienced, but neither was I when we first met. But, I always WANTED it and wanted him to want me every night. I have a hard time initiating...like the man to take the lead there...and when I did try initiating at the beginning of our relationship I kept getting rejected so I stopped being the initiator. He just never seemed all that interested in sex.