You think flinging an insult at the OW hurts him, but it actually just strokes his ego..it makes you look jealous, look like you love him, and look like a child.
Mark is brilliant!! I can testify this is the truth. When I was a ranting lunatic about OW (pressing for details, calling her bad names), H admitted he secretly loved it. Don't forget Mark, it also made me look immature and lacking any self respect! No more mention of OW or anything romantic at all with H.
I also second Not Just Friends.
I know, if you only knew all the stuff I didn't say!
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009