That's why I thought he was gay. Low sex drive coupled with performance anxiety is the problem I believe. I always thought he didn't find me attractive or just plain didn't love me. Still wonder about it. His personality wouldn't allow an affair. His way to deal with anything is to go to his "routine". Do nothing about anything, but keep the routine going. He doesn't drink excessively (2 beers on a weekend maybe), and definitely no drugs. He has a hard time showing affection due to his upbringing. His parents are really a piece of work. I understand why he is the way he is. Doesn't make our situation any easier to solve.
