yoyo... Sara is right, I do like what Theo said, maybe leave the "I adore you part" out... keep the ILY.

You know him better than anyone, but I think its a start. Going dark may be the way you have to go on this one.

(((((hugs)))))

me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.