By the way, if she wants to sleep in on weekends, why don't you get up early and do an activity just for Lan?
I was thinking he meant somthing like go to the bathroom and do "somthing"(Link) just for Lan.
Now if you read my response again.
Originally Posted By: Lanzo
W already thinks I do to many activites on my own. How else could I have survived over the baron years.
it will make more sense.
However, If I read John correctly and did activities for myself then your other points comes into play,
Originally Posted By: Rob
Is it because she misses the time together and wants to use it to improve your R? Or is it because she finds your independence threatening?
it's a bit of both actually. But mainly she wants me around cos her LL is quality time, she wants me around all the time even if she dosen't want me (hope that makes sense).
Rob you're very good cos this feeling has crossed my mind a few times
Originally Posted By: Rob
I'll bet the day after the last of their kids moves out of the house, he starts packing himself."
And I'll finish today with, remaining focused has been a problem, I chat with my divorced friend at work and he tells me not to make the same mistake as he did which was to take his eye off the ball when things got a bit tough in this piecing stage. He just told me to get back to basic DB principles, work on GAL and take it from there. This is something I gotta do.
PS Rob nice story/analogy, that could soooh be me.
