Yeah I agree those are great suggestions, I will stay out of her stuff as well. I have come along way in that regard and gave up snooping for information, but these today were what we call "targets of opportunity" and the just jumped out at me. I have been making my way back through the book and am seeing it from a different light.
You are absolutely right about time together being a treat. We made lose plans to see the new batman movie together in two weeks. I hope that she sticks to that, plus I miss my puppy so it’s only fair to let me come down and play with him. Then in Aug there is a Parents and Spouses orientation at the Law School. I am keeping my fingers crossed that she lets me go to that so I can learn more about it and how to best support her. if either of those two events happen I will make the most of them and enjoy the time with my best friend. that part of time together last week was great.
Me 27, W26 T-12 M-4 SEP 4/29/08 Holding 250 miles Awaiting Support Current